People ARE Changing

Hiya friends!!!
Long time no see.Todays topic is about friends or friendship.At first place, i do not belief that people can change.When it happen to myself, i understand that people do change, but not suddenly. People that go through certain phase of life will naturely change in respect to the knowledge and experience gain. Different from friendship, for me even though friendship involve people but in friendship rules, friend don't change, friend don't forget their friends and friend help each other. I don't understand that people/friends cannot tolerate to each other characteristic, because of this different characteristic it make every friends worth a gold, perhaps worth even more.

FRIENDS DON'T CHANGE
-Yes, it is correct that years cannot determine how much a friend love, but old friend is still a friend that once  upon a time heard your problem, be with you when you cry, and always be there to advice you on things that messed your head even though some of their advice is bad or ridicules, but still they do their best to help you.So, why must friend change when they look at their 'old' friend changers. They tend to criticize and find new friend. A good friend tell secret to each other so that it make them even closer. What happen to the good memories that  friends share? it suddenly lost somewhere in your head??? or you just drop it somewhere??? Friends, friendship is one important thing that make the world move and harmony. Even though you realize that there is a lot of changes in your friend, they still your friend. If you said they change, see yourself whether you are changing or not? As my article said people do change and YOU??? ask yourself a question and you the only one who know the answer.

FRIEND DON'T FORGET THEIR FRIENDS 


**b/g friend = boyfriend/girlfriend
-Do you forget your friend once you found someone else? It does't matter you found new friend or new b/g friend. It is a cruel thing to do. As before you met those people, who is the one that stand beside you? but the most undigestable things to do is left your 'old' friend because of you are having a new b/g friend. Did your  boyfriend know about your dark side? people do say 'i tell every single thingS to my b/g friend' but do they really mean it? every relationship build will have secret, thats make them tolerate to each other mistake. Different from friend, they know about your secret (even the darkest secret that you tell them when you're angry) but do they tell to their other friend because of revenge you left them? Some of them just digest it and pretend that they did't hear anything. They scared if they say something or advice, it will leave a scare. But do you really think about this? That you care is having a romance time with your b/g friend just like your b/g friend will die the next day. Friends think about this, just having a single meal or hang out (without b/g friend) with your friend per week would satisfy them. By doing this thing did your b/g friend left you? no right? so why must you spent with your b/g friend all your time?

FRIEND HELP EACH OTHER
- When you REALLY need help, who is the one that help you? b/g friend? new friend? if the answer is yes, think again, did they 'REALLY' help you?
 if the answer is still yes so you can leave with them, so go and have your life just with them, because people like you never think what people think about you. Your life is about using your friend for benefit.
if the answer is no, thats mean you still remember your friend even though not completely remember. But still there is certain element in you that is beautiful.
Friend help friend without condition, no debt, no regards. Help in any way they can even sometime you see them like they don't care, but inside they try their heart out to figure out the best way to solve your problem.

so, for the conclusion under friendship act, you need your friend whether they are new or old. They change or not. They pretty or not. They rich or not. If you think by being friend with people that far lower than you in every way, they are degrading you, think again, did your friend think the same?

If after reading my article you think that I'M wrong, so ask others. Some day, somehow, you will need your friend help, and when that time arrive you will be the most humiliated person on earth and you will feels that your friend that you left out are laughing at you. Trust me. You friend is still people not robot. and PEOPLE DO CHANGE!

Thats all.toodaloo